Reel Rewind: “Rabbit Hole”

From whole to hole to (w)hole, family life for Becca and Howie devolves and evolves following the accidental death of their four year old son, Danny. The whole (which we see in video flashbacks), shows a happy and loving three-person family with lots of laughter. It is eight months after their child’s death and the hole is the disconnection between the now two-person family that seems to be increasing in distance each passing month – even group therapy does not help; at least not for both of them. Slowly Becca and Howie become (w)hole enough in a way that allows them to tentatively face the future. When Becca asks “So what are we gonna do?”. . . and Howie eventually answers “We’ll figure it out.”, you believe that they will.

Focus of “Rabbit Hole” is on how Becca deals with her grief in contrast to Howie’s approach. After eight months Becca takes down Danny’s artwork from the refrigerator and ends up donating his clothes to Goodwill. Becca makes an unsuccessful attempt to return to work at Sotheby’s, but unexpectedly finds comfort in conversations with Jason, the teen-age driver who accidently hit Danny when he darted into the street. Even talks with her mother (who went through a similar experience with her adult son – Arthur, a thirty-something year old drug addict), gives Becca insight to coping with her grief. Howie plays over and plays over and plays over a video of him and Danny at play. The images of his son brings smiles to Howie’s being and is his comfort in coping with the tragedy. Howie also finds connection with a kindred spirit from group therapy, Gaby, who has been going to group for years and can’t move forward.

Gradually, Becca and Howie work through their disconnection and come to a realization (occurring at the same time for both) that they can continue their life together and it will be all right. And perhaps it will be all right. For in their grief, they each blame themselves and not the other for what happened to Danny (though they do fear the other blames them). As hard as it is to forgive yourself for what you perceive as your fault, it is even harder to forgive someone on whom you’ve placed total blame for a tragedy. To me, the ending rings true as Becca and Howie commit to becoming (w)hole in hopes of someday returning to whole.


Film Facts: Director: John Cameron Mitchell, Writer: David Lindsay-Abaire, Cinematographer: Frank G. DeMarco, Editor: Joe Klotz, Musician: Anton Sanko, Producers: Caroline Jaczko, Nicole Kidman, Geoff Linville, Bill Lischak, Linda McDonough, Brian O’Shea, Gigi Pritzker, Daniel Revers, Per Saan, Leslie Urdang, Dean Vanech, Production Companies: Olympus Pictures, Blossom Films, Odd Lot Entertainment

Film Type: Drama, Cast: Nicole Kidman (Becca), Aaron Eckhart (Howie), Dianne Wiest (Nat), Miles Teller (Jason), Tammy Blanchard (Izzy), Sandra Oh (Gaby), Giancarlo Esposito (Auggie), Jon Tenney (Rick), Stephen Mailer (Kevin), Mike Doyle (Craig), Roberta Wallach (Rhonda), Patricia Kalember (Peg), Ali Marsh (Donna), Yetta Gottesman (Ana), Colin Mitchell (Sam), Length: 91’, Language: English, Country: United States, Year: 2010
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United States release date Friday 17 December 2010
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Left: Nicole Kidman as Becca from the website moviepicturedb.com
Center: Graphic interpretation of “Rabbit Hole” created by Adrean Darce Brent
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